"If you don't live it, it won't come out of your horn." [Charlie Parker]
Because we are constantly comparing things to each other. Maybe it's not as simple as that, but take another look at my statement when I'm done with the story.
It all began last week at a meeting of one of the associations I am a member of for public relations professionals. A long time friend was also in attendance and at the end we took a few minutes to catch up.
As we were talking about professional growth and learning opportunities, two of my favorite topics, I stepped back from the conversation long enough to appreciate its dynamics: Lee was sharing insights and information freely and with a manner that made me feel like a peer and still made him sound knowledgeable. So much so that had he offered me work on a project together, I would have signed on right there and then.
It suddenly hit me in the gut. Sure, I have known it all along, intellectually. Yet I wasn't prepared for the impact that this sudden realization had on the way my world changed in that exact moment. I will never be able to see things the same way again. I finally really "got" what it means to be great -- and what a huge distance there is from good to it.
Did you watch the movie The Prestige? The story goes like this:
Two young, passionate magicians, Robert Angier (Hugh Jackman), a charismatic showman, and Alfred Borden (Christian Bale), a gifted illusionist, are friends and partners until one fateful night when their biggest trick goes terribly wrong. Now the bitterest of enemies, they will stop at nothing to learn each other’s secrets. As their rivalry escalates into a total obsession full of deceit and sabotage, they risk everything to become the greatest magician of all time.
They devote their lives in a quest to constantly compare themselves to each other -- and they are consumed in the process of racing to the title of greatest. The movie will involve you at many levels. Despite all the work that each of the two puts into honing his skill, they are still left with a sense of the unattainable. Their true audience is the other -- the people purchasing tickets are only there to validate one performer as greater than the other.
What happens inside organizations? The mechanisms are there for people and departments to be focused inward, to compare what they do to the others in a race for the accolades of management and thus possibly promotions and pay raises. This is not industry-specific, I have observed this in five different industries. And it is not department specific; having worked in many different structures, my role has been attached to departments accordingly.
Sometimes it happens because we want to make sure that everyone buys into an idea, so we have a series of nice long meetings where everyone asserts their opinion, and then more meetings to decide whose opinion wins. Other times it happens because, heavens, we cannot have those folks in marketing tell us what to do, we are in front of the customers day in, day out, we know how to market. You guessed it, this is the sales team thinking.
Then there are those wonderful career moves designed just to please an audience of one: your boss. I've been in two mergers and one company that eventually ceased to operate. We all have a dark side and let me tell you, those magicians were nothing compared to some of the tricks I have experienced.
The truth is that brand ownership inside an organization is extremely hard to achieve. Not necessarily painful, yet it requires plenty of focus and courage. It begins with hiring practices and never ends. Not for an instant, not for a day. I'm optimistic, I think it can be done with the right application and work. Yet we need to remain vigilant of where the work is being applied and how the energy is being used.
Sustainability also means working within known limits, resources, and funds, and still creating something enduring and beautiful. Why are organizations falling short? Too many competing agendas. On the inside, we keep looking at the world outside with glasses colored by our own perceptions of what we are. The market could not care less about many of the things that use up our collective attention inside a company.
We are constantly comparing things to each other, instead of asking ourselves the hard questions and doing the work it takes to bridge the enormous gap that stretches from good to great out there. Angier and Borden could each have been great, yet they chose to diminish all that incredible work by constantly comparing to the other.
Greatness by definition is inimitable -- its own point of differentiation. Instead of relying on the image they see reflected by their own perceptions, companies should find their identity in other ways. How about in their relevance to clients? How about in keeping their promises in the marketplace? How about in being truthful and authentic?



















You write, "Instead of relying on the image they see reflected by their own perceptions..."
For me, this points to the element of narcissism and what's known as "narcissistic supplies"...those external events, circumstances, behaviors, actions we "arrange and manipulate" so that they point back to us and make us feel good about ourselves", so we ened up living a reactive existence, needing others to shore us up in some way, shape or form..as opposed to having a valid sense of our own self worth (individually or organizationally)and become proactive and creative based on a real knowing of who we are a real self-identity.
Posted by: peter vajda | April 18, 2007 at 09:58 AM
Small people can’t grow big brands.
And we are very small when “we are constantly comparing things to each other, instead of asking ourselves the hard questions and doing the work it takes to bridge the enormous gap that stretches from good to great out there.”
Plus, now I must see The Prestige! Of course I will be deconstructing it in light of your lesson here!
Lots stirred up by this post...thank you!
Keep creating,
Mike
Posted by: Mike Wagner | April 18, 2007 at 07:03 PM
Peter -- what a beautiful insight. I especially like what you’re saying about being creators as well as owners of our own identity.
Mike -- I might have written this thinking about many of the great lessons you have shared in your blog. Perhaps you will find other messages in The Prestige. After all, we see the world as we are.
Posted by: Valeria Maltoni | April 18, 2007 at 10:39 PM
"The market could not care less about many of the things that use up our collective attention inside a company."
Marketers have to take a different approach to their customers. I'm a writer at Deliver Magazine and in a recent article we revisited the "teachings" of the Cluetrain Manifesto.
The point was that our goal as marketers should be to have “conversations” with consumers, so that we might actually add value and then there will be something worth talking about. Something worth remembering in this crazy world called marketing.
You can read the complete article,
http://delivermagazine.com/columns/2007/04/13/get-a-clue/
Posted by: Nancy @ delivermagazine.com | April 19, 2007 at 12:52 AM
Valeria, you make a wonderful case for CLARITY.
I think sales and marketing often disagree because they don't clarify how they create value for each other, for the customer or for the organization as a whole.
Marketing and sales often play in different time horizons, speak with different voices, come from diverging assumptions about what a customer will respond to or disagree on the dynamics at play within their accounts.
Marketing might conclude from their research that it's time for Sales to have a new kind of conversation with customers. Is Marketing naive or misinterpreting reality? Or is Sales inflexible and blind to changing conditions? Both assume they are right and line up the assumptions, the data and the anecdotes that support their position.
How about experimenting with a few live customers to find out? Let's pull together all the assumptions, decide which are most critical and test them quickly. Create a game about claifying what's real vs. who is right.
I agree with you - start with the customer and clarify what's relevant to them - and figure out how to make and keep big promises. Sometimes the best way to settle an internal debate is to start with an external anchor point.
Posted by: Greg Krauska | April 21, 2007 at 11:35 AM
Thanks for the post -
Sorry if I'm off point but I wonder if good is enough when it comes to corporations.
In my experience greatness is wasted on the pursuit of the undifferentiated goal of profit.
I wonder if the corporation has outlived its usefulness as a vehicle for the expression of the peak of human potential.
The Path to greatness expressed as "living it" is at odds with (and risks profitability ):
- a culture of measurement ( CEO what gets measured gets done - Einstein Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted
- risk management ( read lawyers and insurers and shareholders).
The Good of human potential ( expressed as a life "lived" though others ) is great for companies. You'll still make a healthy profit.
But the Great of human potentail ( expressed as life "lived" ) is better for the world ( apologies for the drama).
So yes, Good to Great is hard in companies. And perhaps it even harder in life.
Posted by: Peter Tunjic | April 23, 2007 at 09:26 AM
Greg -- I like the idea of agreeing on common and external anchor points. Especially if those help the people we're meant to serve: customers. You did a good job at expanding on this concept in your blog.
Peter -- "I wonder if the corporation has outlived its usefulness as a vehicle for the expression of the peak of human potential." And I wonder with you, every day. I will delve a little into risk management this week: can risk be managed? Maybe.
Posted by: Valeria Maltoni | April 23, 2007 at 10:14 AM