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Lots of synchronicity out there on the subject of Story: Valeria Maltoni's recent post on Elevating the Conversation on Stories is well worth your time. I've been wrestling with the notion of Story as a definition or motivation for all [Read More]

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Annie, when a company can get the conversation in various mediums to be about the ad itself, that can sometimes have transformational powers.

Richard, I have thought the same thing. When will beer ads show 40+ guys with lawns to mow and dogs to walk v. just couch-ers?

Matt, in my consulting work we call some fabrication in stories "uselful lies" (another Dick Hallstein-er). This is artistic license to prove a point...and never in contrast or to cover up salient facts. A (brand) promise is a promise, after all. I don't advocate using too much artistic license. I do advocate weaving wonderful stories that capture head and heart for clients, customers, senior leaders.

Gerry,

"Facts tell and stories sell." I expect the quantitative studies allow us to create the stories, the outcome narratives, that will produce desired results. I led a discussion this afternoon with a varied leadership team in charge of things such as facilities, data storage centers, etc. Getting them to focus on who their end client is, what their brand promise (internal) is, and what stories they want told about their services provided was a great guide to the conversation.

How would we start with stories and build to a sustainable change?

One of the ways that we can overcome conflicts is to look at where we will be afterwards. In a marriage the two partners can see that a lack of resolution will eventually lead to separation. In a business we can use future outcomes to build our leadership potential but oly if we can convince others that we are the person to guide the way to that better future. In marketing the story we tell, or lie if we are to follow Mr. Godin's premise, is intended to highlight the future present. As I said elsewhere, don't sell mousetraps sell a house free of mice. The appeal of the story is the mouse-free house. It is the same as the better future a leader hopes to convey. In our conversations intended to change future behavior it is often easier to contrast a negative past with a brighter future. What politician does not do this? Are you better today...

The IBM consultant was just saying what has been said for years by John Kotter (Heart of Change, Leading Change)- you have to provide the vision of a a reality that will exist so that people stop fighting against it.

Thanks for providing a space to continue the global conversation.

Hi Roger,

I agree. One of my favorite stories to start an outcome-based conversaton with a group is to ask people what drill makers are selling. The usual answer, "drills" "drill bits" etc. It is really holes. You buy a drill to make holes in things. Just like the mouse-free house - getting people to that long-term vision is key.

Sara M. Reger has taken Kotter to a more operational level, challenging us to have converations about the visions we set.

Joe, I believe "useful lies" are dangerous. I have known several instances where leaders told "mostly true" stories that backfired. In one case, a company President told an inspiring and detailed story about how an employee went out of their way to serve a customer. The reality was that many aspects of the story were exaggerated, and many in the audience knew it. Both the president and the employee ended up losing credibility. More important, employees learned that the president was okay with lies, so long as they supported the new direction.

I find that "stories that work" support change by illustrating the values, principles and behaviors we seek. Insiders and outsiders want to know, "What does change mean? What does it NOT mean?" Stories that answer these questions while reflecting the desired attributes are far more powerful than fiction.

In the absence of inside stories, I prefer to use examples from other organizations - and invite folks to create their own examples.

Hi Greg,

Absolutely, 'useful lies' are dangerous. I expected some feedback due to the powerful negative connection we all share with the word 'lie'.

Think of these as metaphors or analogies: branded as a useful lie. This context gives that much more credence to what you're saying about stories: the more truthful, the more on point they are, the better. I am not advocating for useful lies. I am advocating for the value of stories, and the difficulty in crafting great ones. Events happen all the time. Stories do not. Sometimes a metaphor or analogy can assist, bringing more people into the story.

"Oh what tangled webs we weave, when first we practice to deceive" - right?

Joe has done wonders for this conversation. I know Gerry wanted to join in today as well.

Greg, I think we can all get behind the not telling a fabricated story. And yet I cannot help but think that legends are built on kernels of truth that snowball for the sake of inspiration.

Roger -- "you have to provide the vision of a reality that will exist so that people stop fighting against it." This is a very interesting thought, and probably quite difficult to do, if people are indeed bent on fighting reality.

Valeria -

Thanks for aggregating these diverse views in this way. There's a lot ot digest.

As far as stories, legends, fabrications, and lies are concerned, I believe people accept the fact that all stories are told from a certain perspective and, to a greater or lesser degree, reflect the bias and interests of the narrator. Indeed, that stories give specific shape to a given perspective, making it tangible, is part of their value. At the same time, people are sensitive to the difference between bias, spin, and outright lying. While they can live with bias, especially when it's acknowledged, it's harder to live with lies.

It's also worth remembering that stories don't exist in isolation. They build off stories that precede them and provoke new stories in response. While you can try to control the narrative you are developing, you can't control the narratives that will in turn incorporate it. Lying isn't so much a problem in itself; t's a problem because of the new stories it engenders.

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