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August and September are shaping up to be some very busy months for me, yet still very exciting at the same time. First there are three speaking engagaements this month, in case you would like to attend. If your schedule [Read More]

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daksh

Probably my first comment, at this great blog, the post is superb.

It's actually much easy to write in words that egos should be put aside. Technology/tools have always been enablers people form the crux.

Handling politics, handling egos is more of a challenge because there're some who're resistive to change :)

Rebecca Thorman

Office and workplace politics is an interesting creature. I've actually learned a lot about building relationships and influence by hanging out with real politicians and lobbyists. Often, the advice is to frame the situation so that it seems beneficial to the other party and get them to buy into that by liking you and the strenghts of the situation. Get them in a spot where they would be doing more harm than good by disagreeing with you.

I think that's great advice, but I also try hard to listen to what others are saying to learn from their opinions. This is a fabulous post, my mind is turning its gears!

Valeria Maltoni

Daksh -- you are right on target. And that's why it is important to pay attention to what we say and how we come across. My point of strength is in building relationships and influence. Which is what Rebecca shares with us.

Rebecca -- lobbyists are masters at conversations with outcome wrapped into them. They are able to read people quickly (they are also usually well prepared) and distill their message so it speaks to the other's agenda. I know that is a charged word... yet everyone ends up having one, even in the most positive ways. Have you experienced what you've learned in first person? In other words, did someone influence you successfully? And at the other side, have you tried using the advice?

Timothy Johnson

Valeria - thank you for the great write-up on GUST. Much appreciated. You synthesized the review so well with others' thoughts.

You're so right about the key outcome being decisions, whether cross-pollenated or internal to a department. So few are willing to make decisions and stand by them for fear of the politics. Conversations are the vehicle by which we arrive at the outcomes we desire. It's an art which I am happy to see you champion each day on your blog.

Anne Libby

Hi, Valeria. Thanks for the pointer on the book: I'll keep my eye out for it.

Politics are there, and they are real...the only thing we can change is our reaction to them.

In social situations, rules of etiquette suggest boundaries on behavior that serve to allow people to feel more comfortable.

At the office, "politics" can serve the same purpose. (And it is through relationship that we can press the boundaries of politics. As you suggest, we'd never get anything done without the power of relationship.)

Be well!

Valeria Maltoni

Tim -- I was discussing this very topic with some colleagues the other day. The trick is often not to blindside people and build reservoirs of mutual respect and support. We may not always be in agreement, the art is in finding ways to be hard on the issues while soft of the people.

Anne -- I observed a long time ago that my number one strength is love of learning. When under stress, I tend to go there -- and it's a great place to be as learning is good for me. I really enjoyed Tim's book and enjoy his blog

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