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Mike Riley - Technihub

Valeria,

Very good insight. However, I really think there is a fine line. You will hear just about everything when it comes to how people want to be pitched. Some say just tell me what you want without all the extra stuff. Others will say that your pitch is too abrupt. For example, you stated "Do you think anyone followed up since June 15?" I believe others would be bothered by a follow up by saying "why do people continue to pitch me after I ignored them the first time?" I think two of the things you mentioned are really the most important tips and that is "Do your homework" and "develop relationships." If you really know the person, have followed them, built a relationship, you will know the right way to pitch them. The other thing is that in social media circles you really should give first before you expect anything back. As a side note for how people react to differently read this Friendfeed conversation from Robert Scoble: http://friendfeed.com/scobleizer/c93a294b/i-really-hate-im-people-get-on-there-and-ask-me-how It shows how just a simple "How are you" is accepted by other people. You will see reactions across the spectrum. Thanks for your article I enjoyed reading it.

Mike Riley
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Bruce Christensen

Who cares about my news?
This has been on my mind a lot this year as I work to share my thoughts and passion.

Patience and will are tested when what you want to discuss is not going to be on peoples minds until the last couple of months of the year.

Even so, I'm convinced that developing relationships is the value of every conversation. These new web-based relationships build the confidence to press forward with patience.

Along the way, I am meeting great people and learning a lot about myself. That is probably the best news of all.

Valeria Maltoni

@Mike - excellent points! Indeed there are also good days when we lean forward and can handle more and not so good days when we may ignore the emails of friends because we're so busy. The reason why I did not respond to the first pitch was the turn off from mass mailing. I think Gary Vee rocks, but I also think everyone does in their ways and since our paths have crossed I would have preferred a more personal approach, even from the publicist. Yup, I follow Scoble and agree with the reason why you shared this thread as demonstration.

@Bruce - in another post I talked about the fact that we pay attention to what's already on our mind. But, recognition plays a role. If I already know you and we've had discussions, I may be more inclined to provide you with information that would help you time your requests better. Good comment!

Peter Korchnak

I was surprised to get Gary's pitch email, too, and flattered. Maybe I'm too polite, but I responded with a few ideas to help Gary out, even though the match between my blog (sustainable marketing) and the book seemed weak and even though mine is still a very small blog (subscribers in low triple digits). Judging from the response lag, it did seem like a mass mailing, and I'm not sure I'll participate after all. I will continue following his production, I'm just not sure it's a good match or whether my readers will care about his news.

The "Who cares?" question has been very helpful to me in writing my content or doing my presentations. If everyone did that and answered it honestly and truthfully, we'd probably see much less crap content out there (and trust me, I've produced my share of crap) and much better relationships.

Jon Buscall

What this illustrates is just how important it is to put yourself in the position of your target audience before you send.

You get a sense of the persona of a blogger by reading their blog. I think you have to convey that you're familiar with their work and who they are when you make a pitch. The emphasis should be on the "you" not the "I".

steve cunningham

Valeria - I think you bring up some great points, and also highlight one of the biggest constraints of social media - scalability. In the "old world", scalability is the patron saint of marketing. In the "new world", anything that isn't a direct, personal connection is derided as crude and offensive.

When all is said and done, I think the question is going to remain just as it always has, and that is "how can I create the greatest results with this effort?"

So, I take issue with what you said about "celebrities" being able the change the game in execution. Mass campaigns will stop when they cease being more effective than putting the effort into really understanding each and every media outlet you reach out to.

That means the power is in the hands of the receivers of these messages, not the senders. So when the vast majority of bloggers ignore requests like Gary's, or even call him out on them, that's when the game will change.

I'm also pretty sure you know all this - I just wanted to make the distinction about where the power to change things lies - it's with people like you on the receiving end of these pitches.

Valeria Maltoni

@Peter - it's an important question and it keep me honest, most of the time. The reason why I did not answer Gary's publicist email is that I knew it was a mass mailing and not a two way conversation. To me, you offer as much as Gary does, his popularity notwithstanding, just in a different way. Popularity is not an indication of inherent specialness and something decided by the followers. Mostly, it ends up being right place, right time.

@Jon - the funny thing is that I have as much passion as Gary does. It just manifests differently.

@Steve - volume doesn't go very well with trust. To clarify - the pitch wasn't offensive to me, it just was ineffective, especially when I was the one offering the most suggestions in the comments of John's post and the one getting the short end of the answers there in the end. Hustling is something I'm very familiar with and don't need to brush shoulders with others to know its rewards. Kindness, generosity, and the ability to be there for someone are more impressive qualities to me. But I would not want to make generalizations.

John Cass

To me it is all about execution. Doing your homework and attempting a dialogue is going to have a greater chance of success.

Not sure I agree with the idea that social media engagement is un-scalable. Ever since Dell, I think that company has proven that it is possible to connect with a lot of people (millions) with a fairly small staff. I think it is more of a matter of a company not understanding the potential ROI, and investing in themselves.

Lastly Valeria, do you ever get the sense that people listen to only half of what you say, and understand only 25%? :-)

Andrew Rosenthal

Valeria - thanks for the post. We are preparing to reach out to a small set of influencers whom we identified over the past few weeks. I just sent your post to my colleagues and we'll use it as the basis for our team huddle. The blogger perspective, as well as the links to the social media release, are going to be helpful on our path toward engaging in conversation, and not just pitching. Thanks, as always,

-Andrew

Valeria Maltoni

@John - I'm getting the sense that Dell plateaued a little. I do admire that team, however we will not have real progress with social media until there is true integration of these tools with the business, and not just on a remedial basis. As for comprehension and assimilation of information, we all have different speeds/times. For some, it drives the point home when they experience it directly.

@Andrew - glad to be of service. Funny how the social media release has not really been done - too much work, I suspect. It's far easier to send a bunch of emails without worrying that most of them get trashed.

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