Two situations when this expression usually comes up: the context, or someone else has the action verb and decision power it's what everyone does, you need to do the same; it's the thing to do In both cases, this is an artificial construct. It has consequences, and may not up your score. A driver speeding out of a driveway without looking, barely missing a neighbor walking the dog and not even slowing down to see if they were alright is rationalizing that her son is making her late for something. She has no time. When drivers tailgate, usually the same... Read more →